Freeway Free in San Francisco: The AIDS Memorial Grove

Perhaps one of the smallest National Memorial Sites in the country, and certainly one of the most affecting, is the National AIDS Memorial Grove, tucked into a corner of San Francisco’s Golden Gate Park. It is easy to miss, on a side street on the eastern end of the park, well away from the bustle of the Music Concourse, the Conservatory, and the Museums.
You follow a fernlined path down into a deep hollow. It is very quiet, below the level of street noise, and it is easy to be reverent in the shade of tall redwood and oak trees lining a boulder-strewn creek. As you look closer, you see that many of the boulders are etched with messages of love for someone who has died.
In a sunny clearing at the end of the grove is a paved circle – the Circle of Friends. Radiating out from the center in concentric circles are names. Some are the names of AIDS victims, others of AIDS survivors, still more of friends and family members whose lives have been irrevocably changed by AIDS in some way. Often there are bouquets of fresh flowers at the center of the circle. 
New names can be added only once a year – on November 1, the National Day of Remembrance for AIDS victims. On the website you can search for the names of people you know whose names are already in the circle. I found a college friend’s name, and the names of his parents. He had been one of the early ones to die.
As I walked back through the grove, I noticed that many of the boulders had small cairns built on top of them, perhaps related to the Jewish custom of putting a stone on the grave of a relative or friends when you visit. I stopped by an empty boulder and piled up a cairn – one for my college friend, one for two boys I had known well in high school, one for the son of my high school principal, one for another close friend who is, so far, as survivor. I had not thought of them for a long time. It felt good to think about them here.
Yes, that’s Beale Street, home of the blues, looking pretty tame on a Friday afternoon. But I am on my way to the Gibson guitar factory just a few blocks further down BB King Boulevard. I know I am close when I see the iconic image on the corner.



Sometimes a hotel gets lucky. For example, in San Francisco the venerable
At 5PM the ceremony is reversed, as the ducks are herded out of the fountain and back into the elevator, again with a throng of fans watching, and likely sticking around for a cup of tea or a drink in the lobby lounge.


The first record I ever bought (and I still have it) was Elvis Presley’s debut album, “Elvis”. So when we found we had a day to spare in Memphis, of course we decided to make a pilgrimage to Elvis’s realm at Graceland.

W and I decided to spend some time in LaGrange primarily because it is conveniently about halfway between Houston and Austin. We found a lot more to like than we had expected.
After lunch, a stroll around the square will bring you to the
I thought I was accustomed to startling rock landscapes, having hiked to the top of Yosemite’s Half Dome, ridden a mule to the depths of Bryce Canyon, and driven dirt roads through Monument Valley. But Enchanted Rock State Natural Area is in a separate class. It features a large pink granite dome which looks like something escaped from Yosemite, exfoliation and all, except it is the wrong color. And except that, according to the geological information provided in the trail guides, most of this giant formation is buried under eons of silt deposits. The summit is 1823 feet above sea level, offering wonderful 360 degree views of the Texas Hill Counry. If it were fully exposed, it would cover an area as large as Manhattan, and be as high as Half Dome.
Fredericksburg, founded in 1846 by German settlers, is said to have perpetuated not only the authentic German cuisine of the founders but also some of their “authentic German soul.” (per VisitFredericksburgTX.com). I have to say we pretty much struck out. We got recommendations from the friendly host at our motel and headed hungrily into town after our drive from San Antonio. The 

We walked down the Riverwalk to

The Alamo is not a large building, and until the Daughters of the Republic of Texas appealed to the state government, it was in danger of disappearing entirely under one or another wave of urban development which swept over San Antonio. Now, of course, it is a cultural icon as well as a huge tourist attraction. The State of Texas has taken over responsibility for funding its maintenance, with the DRT acting as custodians.